Chat Recap: Last Minute Free and Cheap Gift Ideas

Still need a few things for the kiddos for Christmas? Here you will find some great ideas that we shared in our weekly chat.

This is the condensed version of the chat, edited to include only relevant info (edited out, “hi”, “goodbye”, “that’s cool”, etc. You can download the full version in .txt here. (right click > save as)

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Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

VanessaP: Well, for those of us with tight wallets, and Christmas in just a few days, what ideas can we come up with for free and cheap last minute gift ideas?

ek99fish: i liked patrice’s dollar store idea 4 siblings 2 fill each others’ stockings.

bellmom: I love the idea someone had about giving them a few dollars for the Dollar Store and letting them stuff one another’s stockings.

VanessaP: ya that’s a fun idea. Especially if you have a Dollar Tree around, or something, where everythign is a dollar

Aadel: Well I traded in some of our nicer used clothes at a local consignment store and got store credit and I am giving the girls the credit gift card for Christmas

ek99fish: and then we talked last night about how some families don’t have money to spend on presents so they’re spending time together in whatever way works best for that family. i like that.

Aadel: It is also a costume shop so they can choose out some dress up stuff or jewelry

ek99fish: seriously aadel?

ek99fish: oh, you mean the store credit @ the thrift store, right?

ek99fish: i thought you were giving them your credit card.

Aadel: It is like a high-end consignment shop

Aadel: Erin THAT would be dangerous!

DevinaF: This is not a complete gift, but my daughter has been making little homemade gift boxes. Here is a great video on making them. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Op15rZhsK8g

DevinaF: This year, my kids decided that they would buy gifts for each other. I was so shocked!

Aadel: I know places like Once upon a Child do store credit

ek99fish: last year my boys bought each other a gift worth $5. and it was a surprise that they all got each other nurf guns. this year they did it again but on purpose.

VanessaP: Oh, some discount scrapbook paper for origami would be cool, and maybe print out some instructions

VanessaP: One thing I did this year, was go to Dollar Tree and just buy a bunch of craft supplies like pipe cleaners, pom poms, popsicle sticks, etc, and put those in a bag

Aadel: You could make them a tub of recycled craft supplies bellmom Has exited the room

DevinaF: Here is another link to make paper mache lanterns. Christmas lights are cheap, cheap right now! http://www.reesedixon.com/2009/06/paper-mache-party-lights.html

Aadel: old socks, paper towel tubes, leftover christmas paper

ek99fish: i’m going to need my Rise & Shine tea before I continue. My 6, a month shy of 7, yr. old keeps asking me multiplication and math questions. I’m not multi-tasking very well right now.

Aadel: Scrap paper, interesting magazines, etc. we recycle all of our sour cream tubs to use for kids crafts

VanessaP: Someone mentioned in the group that they did little homemade gift certificates for things, so I printed some out last night here http://www.freeprintablecertificates.net/showcover/christmas_gift_certificate_tree

ek99fish: we have a cardboard box that they have resuable materials in it. basically, yogurt containers, paper towel rolls, that kind of thing.

DevinaF: Sorry y’all, I like links. Here is one to make a jean material corsage http://tearosehome.blogspot.com/2010/01/tutorial-jean-corsage-got-old-jeans.html

VanessaP: I filled them out with things like “Baking session with mom” “meal of choice”, “lunch date with mom”, etc

Aadel: I saw a really cool marble run made from wrapping paper tubes on Pinterest yesterday

VanessaP: we are just talking about free and cheap last minute Christmas gift ideas

ek99fish: we’ve done coupons before. i like that. it was more for my husband. but it might be something we do in the future.

Aadel: http://happyhomefairy.com/2011/07/09/marble-ous-marbles/

Aadel: towards the bottom of the post

Aadel: And here is a treehouse out of cardboard scraps http://familyfun.go.com/crafts/make-a-treehouse-1024899/?CMP=NLC-NL_FFUN_Wkdr_100511_make-a-treehouse

ek99fish: you women must like crafty stuff. not me but my kids have done well just figuring out things on their own.

ek99fish: not that i haven’t facilitated.

Aadel: And these party bracelets look so cool! Maybe you could make them with your kids http://www.marthastewart.com/266277/paper-party-bracelet

DevinaF: Love the link to the marble crafts. It brought back memories of when I was a kid and we tried to get marbles into holes in a shoebox.

Aadel: Ok- so for the not so crafty

Aadel: What are some other free/cheap ideas? Liane[9:29:21 AM]: I’m at a total loss this year for ideas

VanessaP: cookie mixes and hot cocoa mix, etc

DevinaF: Making a silly diorama using pictures of family/friends.

VanessaP: those are always easy to put together

ek99fish: I would do coupons, in the future. And we are going to make some things like lip balms and my 9 yr. old is making these cookies called Pumpkin Gems, they don’t use sugar but honey and applesauce as a sweetener.

ek99fish: oh, and we’re making finger paints for my nieces.

Aadel: I like your idea of a $10 shopping spree Nessa- in your coupons

VanessaP: You can just use a favorite recipe you have the things on hand for, put together the dry ingredients, and add directions on how to do the rest.

Aadel: You could do a coupon “your choice of a redbox movie rental”

VanessaP: oh ya. one of our coupons was for a $10 shopping spree for each of the older boys. That way, we can go at a later date and they can pick out what they want

ek99fish: And I’d rather my gifts, if they’re coming from the children, be fair trade or benefit someone from a place like Trade As One.

DevinaF: I made these rice filled heating/cooling pads one year. http://www.thefamilyhomestead.com/ricefilledpad.htm

VanessaP: Oh, and lets’ not forget, regifting our own belongings, like one child could gift one of their toys they don’t play with much anymore to a sibling

Aadel: I am making slippers for Vanessa’s boys- with my scrap yarn and a free pattern

Aadel: Well- one thing we did this year is burn cd’s of kid’s songs

Aadel: We got a cd holder at the dollar general and I already had blank CD’s

DevinaF: Here is a link for drink mixes http://www.thefamilyhomestead.com/mixes.htm

Rmiller: Oooh! Baking. I tried to make the salt dough ornaments. I think I rolled them out too thin. Burned a lot of them! :-O

VanessaP: My husband is going to be burning some of our movies for cousins this year

Rmiller: Where did you find music to download for free?

Aadel: Here is a bunch of free children’s audio books http://www.kidsaudiobooks.co.uk/mp3_downloads.htm

Rmiller: I used to burn Librivox to CD ~ but kids can listen on iPads, so I stopped. But would like more music

ek99fish: i briefly thought of them making ornaments, but we’ve had various illnesses running through this house since the Sat. before Turkey Day.

VanessaP: well I didn’t get music, but I have tons of free audio books and series for kids that I have been meaning to get on CD

Aadel: A whole bunch of old Muppets records http://muppetmusique.blogspot.com/search?updated-min=2008-01-01T00:00:00-08:00&updated-max=2009-01-01T00:00:00-08:00&max-results=50

VanessaP: that old Star Wars Series, too. but you have to have a membership right Aadel?

Aadel: yes

Aadel: http://www.mysteryshows.com/index.htm#club

Aadel: You have to click “join mystery clubhouse”

Aadel: It is a donation- $10 for a lifetime membership

Aadel: and they have the entire series of Star Wars audio drama

Aadel: as well as thousands of old radio shows

VanessaP: what about printable stuff? if you have a printer and ink

VanessaP: I found a printable nativity scene to put together with my boys nboone Has entered the room

ek99fish: My printer is broken. Can’t afford to fix it right now. So either my husband prints or I use the library.

Aadel: Kid’s vinyl records downloads http://www.artsreformation.com/records/

nboone: hi there so this year for Christmas we are only giving our kids 3 Christian gifts and on New Years they will get new toys and clothes for the new year.

VanessaP: Just a recap for Nicole, we have discussed homemade ornaments, audio books/music/movies burned on CD/DVD, coupons for experiences with mom and dad, etc, what else?

Rmiller: We’re buying cheap “consumables”. Markers, play dough, construction paper, scotch tape (this is a BIG hit at our house), yarn (for stringing across the house ~ my kids have no idea it can be turned into clothing), & paint

Aadel: The girls were apparently upstairs making cheap/free presents for me

VanessaP: oh I found a really cool idea… you take pop bottle caps, and then those foam stickers, and glue them to the caps to make little stamps

Aadel: They have beads and jewelry making supplies in their room

VanessaP: oh I’m making homemade playdough in lots of new colors… you can use kool aid if you want to make scented playdough!

Aadel: Ok this is going to be a super long link because I had to search it

Aadel: But I found a bunch of free MP3 albums for kids on Amazon

Aadel: http://www.amazon.com/gp/search/ref=sr_nr_n_3?rh=n:163856011,p_36:-99,p_n_feature_browse-bin:625150011,n:!624868011,n:624899011&bbn=624868011&ie=UTF8&qid=1324399708&rnid=624868011

nboone: my oldest is 10 and she made scrapbooks for long distance family and the boys 7 & 4 put together homemade calendars with pictures of them throughout the year

Aadel: anyways sometimes you can find free Mp3 albums on Amazon

nboone: My oldest also decorated the cover of the canvas books with shaving cream and food coloring and made prayer journals for her friends

VanessaP: I was thinking, you could print out some free printable story books, or any activities your kids like, and put those as stocking stuffers, flip books, etc

VanessaP: My oldest son loves mazes, so I might print him some

Rmiller: Shaving cream & food coloring? How does that work?

nboone: flip books thats cute.

Aadel: Make blank books!

VanessaP: I’m actually gonna save the chat thus far and go, we are going to get ready to do sugar cookie cutouts!

Aadel: Just take some printer paper, cardstock, etc. and fold in half

Aadel: or cut up into shapes


A Gift of Links

If you haven’t already picked up a copy of fellow Christian Unschooler Jessica Bowman’s book, Parenting Wild Things then here is an opportunity to get the ebook for free.  It is a great quick read and very worth picking up a copy for yourself (as well as copies for any friends who are struggling with their wild things.): http://bohemianbowmans.com/free-copy-of-parenting-wild-things/

A great post on Boredom and what “I’m bored” means: http://hypnosaka.blogspot.com/2010/01/bored.html

An excellent post on “What every 4 year old should know”: http://www.drmomma.org/2011/11/what-should-4-year-old-know.html

Get “How I Learned” by Shamus Young (autobiography of an autodidact, a personal story of one boy’s meandering path through the American educational system. ) for $1.99: https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/109794


New location for I-CU meme

Mama over at You Know What Mama will be hosting I-CU over at her blog.  Today’s is up at http://youknowwhatmama.blogspot.com/2011/12/icu-christian-unschoolers-weekly-meme.html.  Stop over and join in.

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Weekly Christian Unschooling Chat

I am pleased to announce that ChristianUnschooling.com is currently hosting a weekly Christian Unschooling Chat.

This week’s chat takes place Tuesday, December 6th (Today!) at 3pm GMT. That is 10am CDT, 11am EDT, etc. This week’s discussion will be on strewing (mainly because I want to learn more about it, so if you do it, please come and share how!)

Chat will take place here: http://www.christianunschooling.com/chat/ . It’s a quick registration (no email confirmation required)

We hope you can join us!


Newsy Stuff

Just letting everyone know that the I-CU meme is on hiatus until someone else comes along who wants to make it happen. I am not currently able to keep it going due to my own busy-ness and since Steph felt she had to stop at this time and no one else has come forward interested in continuing it we will leave it at that.

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In other news, Shamus Young’s book,”How I learned,” which is based on the autobiography he posted to his blog over the last few months, is now available both as an ebook and as a print book (it will also be available on Amazon and through Createspace soon.)

This autobiographical account traces the author’s journey from a “learning disabled” child to a successful author, pundit, and software engineer. It allows the reader to see classroom education from the point of view of one of the many “abnormal” kids who are demonstrably bright but dysfunctional in the classroom. It’s also a story of a kid who wanted to learn about computers about ten years before the school system was prepared to teach anything on the subject.

I have linked to bits from it in the past as well as talked about how he learned to program and write  completely on his own instead of through a school when pointing out how children will even learn what most people consider “boring” subjects that have to be “taught” if they have a passion for something  and need it in order to do so.  If you haven’t read it and are still wondering how your kids will learn the “boring subjects” I heartily recommend it– at least go read some of the posts about his school experience on his blog which starts hereif you prefer not to purchase the whole book.


There’s No Place Like…..the I-CU

Intensive Care for the Christian Unschooler– this will be a weekly meme (you post the questions to your blog each Wednesday that you are able, using one of the buttons to link back here, and hop over here and add your site to the linky at the bottom.)

“This week we want to…”

“The kids are…”

“I am learning….”

“I am struggling with…”

“This week is the first time….”

“I am grateful…”

“Our family first started unschooling…..(insert time frame/date, etc)”




I-CU time!

Intensive Care for the Christian Unschooler– this will be a weekly meme (you post the questions to your blog each Wednesday that you are able, using one of the buttons to link back here, and hop over here and add your site to the linky at the bottom.)

“This week we want to…”

“The kids are…”

“I am learning….”

“I am struggling with…”

“This week is the first time….”

“I am grateful…”

“I think…..is the best month of the year because…”




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Intensive Care for the Christian Unschooler– this will be a weekly meme (you post the questions to your blog each Wednesday that you are able, using one of the buttons to link back here, and hop over here and add your site to the linky at the bottom.)

“This week we want to…”

“The kids are…”

“I am learning….”

“I am struggling with…”

“This week is the first time….”

“I am grateful…”

“I’ve come a long way in my thoughts on……”




Radical Unschooling from a Christian Perspective

Hi, this is Dawn from Cultured Mama!  Heather asked me to post my latest blog entry on radical unschooling over here.  Most of the time, I blog about food, family and faith, though not necessarily in that order.

Someone in one of my groups was asking several questions about Radical Unschooling from a Christian perspective.  The following is my response.

I think the key to RUS from a Christian perspective is knowing and respecting one’s children as individuals and as real people who have their own hearts, minds and souls, who will ultimately make their own decisions regarding Christ.

I have a two year old right now. Even though she is not “old enough” for “schooling” yet, I still consider myself a Radical Unschooler  because I view my child as a whole person, created in God’s image with a specific purpose in Him. As a fully authentic human being, albeit new to this world and all that is in it, I feel called to treat her as God has instructed me to treat every other human being on this planet– in the manner in which I wish to be treated.

Along with that, I trust that God has designed each of us (including my daughter) to grow, learn, and thrive under certain conditions and within certain parameters. Children WILL grow, and they WILL learn. How they grow and what they learn depends greatly on those conditions and parameters in which they find themselves.

One of the BIGGEST conclusions that I have come to is that children learn primarily through example. They are great mimics, and will do whatever they see the people around them do. This is true of not only activities and actions, but also of words thoughts and attitudes. The life I live is the life she will likely live, dependent of course on her own particular bent and makeup.

In parenting my child (because, to me, US is not an academic question, but rather a philosophical approach to how I relate to and raise my child) I must first look to how God raises His children. And He has given us the record of Christ as the walking talking example of how to make disciples (and what are we doing with our children if not making them disciples?) In His example, He taught, and then walked. Those who chose, then followed. He didn’t beg folks to follow, and He didn’t cajole stragglers or even condemn followers who messed up. He did provide correction, as well as grace and mercy for when mistakes were made.

But He didn’t browbeat, and He didn’t try to MAKE people obey Him.

I have no interest in raising righteous pagans. I want to be a witness to my children of God’s grace and mercy, and have them be willing participants in His Salvation process. This means that as they grow older, and become more aware of the choices presented to them, I can model Christ (and humbly repent openly before them when I DON’T) and give them the benefit of the wisdom God has given me, but I cannot MAKE them do things they choose not to do (such as following godly wisdom, or choosing to lead a life for Christ.)

My baby is two. So for now, we have arguments over changing her diapers from time to time (though she’s mostly potty trained at this point) and we have differences of opinion about what is an acceptable form of  play with the cat, or where things go in the kitchen. But ultimately, we try not to have more “rules” than are necessary for her safety and my sanity. There are things she doesn’t know and cannot comprehend. But I still must treat her with respect and grace, even in the midst of a two year old melt down (or a melt down of my own.)

It doesn’t matter how old my child is– she will learn to her God-given potential, in the timing and manner in which God has designed her to do, academically, emotionally, physically and spiritually. And if I am paying attention, and doing my job, I will have trained her up in the way that SHE should go, not in the way I want her to go, or that society thinks she should go, but in the way God specifically has planned for HER.

My job as her mother and spiritual covering is to provide her with optimum nourishment– spiritually, physically, emotionally and mentally. That has nothing to do with curriculum and EVERYTHING to do with living. Right now, I provide her meals and nourishment, and choose whether or not (or how much) junk gets through. Since she’s still nursing (and even more so for her sibling in my womb right now) I have ABSOLUTE CONTROL over what goes into her body (and anything that slips in that is “junk” is due to my weakness, and not on her, though it does affect her.

The same principles that apply to food also apply to things of the spirit. The aroma with which I fill my home is what she breathes in day and night. Does it smell like Christ and Life? or does is smell like bitterness and death? Her father and I choose that aroma based on OUR walk with Him, and on how much time we spend in His Word, in prayer, and in daily conversations with and about Him.

The spiritual, intellectual, emotional and physical atmosphere that she breathes in daily will have far more of a profound effect on who she becomes than any Rules and Regulations or Structures I may attempt to prop up to “control” the outcome.

In the end, she is a person, created in the image of God, and will have her own personal experience with Him. I cannot (and should not) attempt to control that, because it is not up to me. All I can do for her is exactly what I am called to with everyone else; point to Christ, and try to be as a good a witness [example] as possible.

One last thing I would add. The command for children to obey their parents is given directly to the CHILDREN. There is no command for parents to extract obedience FROM their children. We are exhorted to love them, protect them, disciple them, correct them, yes, but we are also admonished not to exasperate or frustrate them. Artificial constructs intended as methods of discipline and correction may groom “well-behaved” children in the short term, but how much bitterness, resentment and evil is sown into young hearts to do much damage as adults later on because of it?


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Intensive Care for the Christian Unschooler– this will be a weekly meme (you post the questions to your blog each Wednesday that you are able, using one of the buttons to link back here, and hop over here and add your site to the linky at the bottom.)

“This week we want to…”

“The kids are…”

“I am learning….”

“I am struggling with…”

“This week is the first time….”

“I am grateful…”

“Next week, I want to….”