ABC’s of Homeschooling

I went to a lovely luncheon with homeschool moms recently. I had a great time.

One of the things we were asked to do was to write out the alphabet and beside each letter write a word (beginning with that letter) that reflects our feelings about homeschooling. After we completed our list, the organizer of the luncheon read off the list she’d made and who ever had the most and least amount of words that she’d added to her list won a prize.

Surprisingly, (to me anyway) most of the words were negative. The one woman who admitted that she’d listed mostly positive feelings is just about to begin her first year of homeschooling. Everyone laughed when she was asked how many years she’d been homeschooling because she’s actually about to start this year. Someone said that’s why she had mostly positives- she hadn’t started yet!

I remember when I first started 11 years ago and I must say my feelings haven’t changed. Here’s my list with a few explanations for some of my word choices:

A- Anxious- Am I doing enough for my children?
B- Brave- to be embarking on a path that no one in my family has
C- Creative
D- Driven
E- Endearing
F- Fun!
G- Great!
H- Horrified- at how others do it while they are seemingly tormented and stuck in a rut they created and keep themselves in.
I- Independent
J- Justified
K- Kind children- I come across a lot of kindhearted children at homeschool activities- course, you have your meanies too.
L- Love
M- Many hats- I wear a lot
N- Numerous ideas
O- Open (heart)
P- Perfecting (ourselves in Christ)
Q- Quality life
R- Reflective
S- Super Woman! Why yes, yes I am…
T- Thankful
U- Unschooling!!!! (what else would I put for U, lol?)
V- Victorious!
W- Willingness
X- Xenophile- (n.)A person attracted to that which is foreign, especially to foreign peoples, manners, or cultures.
Y- Yearning- for more to discover and learn together
Z- Zealous!

Patrice London is a Christian unschooling mom of 3 girls, doula, coloratura soprano and the author of "Empowered To Birth Naturally: One Woman's Journey to Homebirth". Learn more about Patrice at www.empoweredtobirthnaturally.com

4 Comments

  1. Posted October 9, 2009 at 4:18 pm | Permalink

    I love your list!

  2. Posted October 11, 2009 at 6:50 pm | Permalink

    Great list! But I’m surprised that there was so much negativity among the more experienced homeschooling moms. How discouraging that must have been for positive newbie mom!

  3. patricelondon
    Posted October 11, 2009 at 7:03 pm | Permalink

    I believe it’s because they were all some variety of school at home types. I think I’d be burned out and depressed too if I homeschooled that way.

  4. Neely
    Posted October 25, 2009 at 2:40 pm | Permalink

    Wonderful list!
    In my homeschooling group the parents were recently talking about how at least one time or another your child is going to whine about what they have to do. They are going to complain and you are going to have to make them do it. I sat there thinking how I never have to coerce them into anything. They are eager to learn and love the time spent with me. If they are not interested in what I am offering I put it away or do it myself :) I was smiling inside at the fact that NO my children are not made to do anything to do with their education.
    I look over as I type and my 6yo is making a tin can phone. Think I should be making her do some Math? Nah. I think she has it covered! :)

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