Category Archives: Struggles

Where we have failed–our valleys that God has brought us through.

Children’s Church Or Not?

Ok, so we’re Christian unschoolers, living and learning, following our children’s lead and then we go to church.  We all walk to the building happily awaiting what Word God has given our Pastor for us today.  Then instead of going in the sanctuary to be seated, we turn the corridor and Jaiela turns to me [...]

Facing Resistance from Your Kids

A few people have asked me about dealing with resistance from kids. We all face it, and it’s not fun. Dealing with a bad attitude or a straight out “NO!” is really a relationship issue. What do you expect from your kids and how much do you respect their opinions? How much do they respect [...]

bringing good things to life~

Something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately is the facilitating of that passion to learn, to build and to creatively express ones self; that desire to grow and to become something great that’s within us all, my own children specifically, manifesting itself in so many various talents. As a parent and my children’s primary [...]

From Classical Christian Homeschooler to (eek!) Possible Christian Unschooler

When I began to homeschool I tried the classical Christian approach and thought that every single day I needed to teach my Kindergartner

Bible
Math
Reading and
Art

That didn’t seem too bad and I actually really enjoyed it! (Except for the fact that W wasn’t anywhere near ready for reading at age 5!)
But I gave up the classical method [...]

Unschooling Question: What about math and the other boring stuff they need?

I run into this question often from friends, family members, forums, and even unschooling friends.  Many are fearful enough that their children won’t naturally attempt to learn things they deem boring or important (often both) that they specifically purchase a curriculum for just that subject–regardless of whether the child has shown interest in it.

Issac waiting [...]

Confessions of a Homeschool Mama

This was written a year ago.  It is rather rambling and the pictures I originally had here are gone with my old blog so these photos are from the last year.   I had always considered myself an eclectic/relaxed home schoolers–especially compared to my friends who were all very structured, curriculum bound home schoolers.  We [...]

Does interest-led learning promote ignorance?

Well, I’m half-way through the book! Would be farther, but it didn’t arrive until almost dinner yesterday. Needless to say I didn’t end up cooking. And now UberDad wants a turn, so I thought I’d finish a reply to a little comment about unschooling posted the other day. I rarely get questions from random visitors, [...]

Can I go to School?

At three thirty every afternoon a dingy yellow school bus rambles past our house. My oldest and I are invariably working on math lessons while the little ones sleep, or, at least, are in their room supposed to be asleep. My son gazes wistfully out of the window wishing he could be finished. Then I [...]

When it Looks Like They’re Not Learning

This is the only time of year that I get antsy and start worrying about unschooling. I’d be so interested in hearing about how you encouraged learning with younger kids. Or did you just let them play until they came and asked? I find mine haven’t been asking much lately and I worry it’s something [...]