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‘In “How Children Learn at Home” we concentrated on how children learn school subjects informally at home. Our aim was to build up a general picture of learning at home. This time we are going to narrow the focus more specifically to reading. Having used the word “informal” already I must add that we are not just interested in the autonomous end of the scale here. Parents who deliberately teach their children to read using a standard reading scheme are still informal in the sense that they, and their children, had the freedom to choose this path and the freedom to choose when, where, how and why to go about their learning. ‘

What they have found so far about how children learn is fascinating and well worth the rad.  It is especially encouraging to those of us who have taken a more facilitation style of teaching our children.

“There are many practical and scholarly homeschooling resources…

Around Zine is not one of them.”

I haven’t managed to get a hold of a copy yet but will as soon as possible (and will give a review when I do).  In the meantime you can check it out here and order a copy here.

WRITING IS NOT HARD. Writing is communicating. If you can think, you can write.

So why do home schoolers spend so much money on writing curriculum and give writing assignments starting in first grade and worry that their kids don’t write enough? Probably because the home schooling parent went to traditional school and that’s what they went through, or because that expensive curriculum I just bought says we have to, that’s why.

It’s hard to imagine a world where eight-year-olds are not asked to find the topic sentence of a paragraph or where 12 year-olds are not asked to write book reports. What would become of our youth?

Abraham Lincoln lived in that kind of world. He only spent a few months in a traditional school setting. The rest of his childhood was spent in search of time to read, and no one asked him to write anything. In fact, he didn’t have paper. He would write in the dirt or scratch on wood. As a farmer, he had time to think about his readings as he plowed fields or chopped wood, but he never wrote a summary or an analysis of his readings. He didn’t even take notes.

When he moved away from home, Lincoln became a store clerk and had plenty of time to read behind the counter. When a family moving West had to lighten their load, he bought a barrel full of their belongings. “I found at the bottom of the rubbish a complete edition of Blackstone’s Commentaries. I began to read those famous works, and I had plenty of time; for during the long summer days, when the farmers were busy with their crops, my customers were few and far between. The more I read, the more intensely interested I became. Never in my whole life was my mind so thoroughly absorbed. I read until I devoured them.” source

That’s how Abraham Lincoln became a lawyer. He read, studied what interested him, and passed the bar exam. Without traditional education he became one of the most eloquent, influential communicators in American history. He never took a speech-writing class, yet the Gettysburg Address and his Second Inaugural Address are among the best speeches ever delivered (and yes, he wrote his own speeches).

But could he write a five paragraph essay? Argh! I’ll have more on that topic in a future post.

Here are some specifics for today’s student:

1. Let them read.
2. Let them think and express opinions about what they read.
3. Respect their opinions and insights so they will feel the freedom to talk honestly with you.
4. Share your own insights and wonder at a writer’s ability to communicate.
5. Don’t kill the fun of writing by pointing out spelling or grammar mistakes all the time.

Here’s what we did.

At the age of six or seven, Peter began reading the Boxcar Children Series over and over again. I had to remind myself that even if these weren’t Dickens, he was at least being exposed to correct spelling, punctuation and grammar. At one point he told me that on the second or third reading he started to notice how the writer was laying out the story, foreshadowing, and creating suspense. This is a good thing to remember: On the first read you are engrossed in the story; on subsequent readings you can be more detached and notice the craft. He even noticed how quotations were organized so that each new speaker had his own line–pretty sophisticated stuff for a young reader to discover on his own. If you think your child isn’t picking up on these things, you could casually point them out, especially if you are reading out loud to him. But keep comments minimally invasive or you’ll kill the joy of reading.

As your child is reading books that interest him, allow him to respond naturally. He may want to talk about it, write about it, act it out, find more information, who knows! Then he will find more books and websites and have more responses. This can go on for years.

Encourage creative writing by suggesting your child write his own book. Or if he likes to create imaginary worlds, give him a little journal to chronicle his adventures. Melissa had dog stories going on for awhile. She liked to type them into the computer and work on them with friends. At one point, she created a newspaper that reported on happenings around the house, including an advice column and comics.

Meg was a late reader, but she loved to listen to books, and we did a lot of that (Little House on the Prairie, Chronicles of Narnia, The Borrowers, etc). Around the age of 10, she started reading on her own, and with very little instruction, her spelling and grammar are up to grade level just from the exposure she gets from her books.

In 8th grade, take stock of your child’s knowledge of grammar, especially if you have not been taking standardized tests all along.* And by the way, I would not recommend taking standardized tests if you don’t have to. They could traumatize some kids and they just aren’t necessary.

How do you assess your kids in the area of mechanics? Check out EnglishChick.com. She has a great grammar basics section and links to other sites, including a free assessment with online lessons. To check your child’s knowledge in the least threatening way, just read over the basics page together, or do the assessment together and see what areas are weak. I also like the Online Writing Lab from Purdue University. They are concise and have a nice list of topics to choose from. EdHelper.com has free worksheets on various grammar topics if your child wants to try those. And my all-time favorite book on English mechanics is Woe is I by Patricia T. O’Connor.

For high school, encourage your child to continue reading great books and allow plenty of opportunity to research whatever interests him. If your child needs some help finding things to read, I highly recommend Invitation to the Classics. It gives short background information on the most respected authors through time, discussion of some of their most important works, along with some questions for thought. Your child could start reading through this book until she comes upon a piece of literature that sounds interesting, then find it at the library. Or you and he could be reading the same thing so you can have the fun of discussing it. This is a great guide to help you find wonderful things to read.

You could give writing assignments, but I wouldn’t unless the child really wants one. Melissa used to do this to me. In junior high she’d ask me to give her a research assignment. She tended to do reports about animals. I’d tell her what types of things she might want to find and she’d come up with her own way to present it, complete with pictures she found on the Internet.

One year during high school, Peter and I met with another home schooled student and tried to do a more formal type of literature class. It was fun to have a time set aside once a week to do that, but it really helped the other girl more than Peter. He found the writing assignments easy because he likes to read and talk about what he reads. And after all, that’s what makes a good writer–someone who can think and communicate logically. I spent most of my time trying to help the other child who’d been very traditionally schooled at home all her life.

The first semester of his senior year, Peter took a composition class at our local community college. We decided to do that so he could prove to himself and colleges that he could write. Unfortunately, it was mostly a waste of money. They had him writing essays (yes, the old five paragraph essay) on different topics. He got A’s on all of them and I hear now his essays are used as examples in the class. Now he’s completing his first quarter at the University of Chicago. He gets A’s on his papers and at least one teacher used his paper as an example for the rest of the class. His friends wonder how he can be such a good writer when he’s been homeschooled–meaning he was never subjected to hours of writing instruction and practice. Maybe that’s the key.

If your child will take the SAT or the ACT, you need to teach them about the five paragraph essay. I will have a thorough discussion of that coming soon. But instead of teaching that topic ad nauseam for years, start about four weeks before the test to allow time to practice a few.

Home School Meets Public School in English Class

Recently Melissa told me about her high school freshman English class (she decided to try public school this year). They are learning how to write summaries. I just roll my eyes and think what a waste of time for those poor kids. Human beings can summarize without instruction, thank you. We do it all the time.

A few weeks ago they started learning how to write the five paragraph essay. If you haven’t noticed by now, I have strong opinions about this traditional way to teach writing, and I can’t wait to get some time to dive into it. But even worse than the fact that high school freshman are learning how to write the five paragraph essay, the teacher told them they wouldn’t be writing a persuasive essay until next year because they just “aren’t mature enough yet.” Excuse me? How many eight-year-olds can present persuasive arguments, especially now, around Christmas time?

For the first time in her life, Melissa is taking notes on a book she’s reading. She has discovered that the purpose of the note cards is to prove they are actually reading the books. Yes, the joys of institutional education. At various points in the unit, each child has to stand in front of the class and talk about the notes they are taking. Melissa did hers yesterday. I asked her how she did. “Fine. I always get full credit for things.”

“How did the other kids do?” I asked.

“Terrible! It’s amazing how no one can talk. The teacher has to pull things out of them and they just mumble.”

But wait, these kids have been in a classroom since they were five years old, becoming magically socialized and learning such wonderful things! And here the child who spent her elementary years “in the wild” can actually talk and write about things she’s learning.

Be assured, the freedom to read and think and follow his interests will make your child a natural, effective communicator.

*If you live in an area where your kids have to prove some sort of “competency” for the “experts,” find out what exactly they are looking for and be sure your kids can do those things at a passing level. Scores on standardized tests in the elementary grades mean nothing to colleges. If, however, you plan to send them to a private high school, it might be a good idea to check ahead of time if those schools will use your elementary scores to determine admission or scholarships. Even if you have to “teach to the tests,” you can probably cover what they need to know in just a few days if the rest of the time has been rich in reading and discovery.

As willing as my children are to sit and watch cats do all sorts of crazy back flips and flush the toilet, Youtube is full of interesting educational resources if you know where to look.  For instance my son adores marbles.  Really.  He has a huge collection that is constantly under foot, in corners, in my vases, cupboards, every conceivable spot has at least one marble if you look hard enough.  One day he asked me how they made them, which led to several hours browsing Youtube watching videos about marble making, glass making, leading to how they make everything under the sun. If you remember the old Mr. Rogers/Mr. McFeely how they make that videos you know what I mean.

The problem with that is that you have to be careful–not every one of those how they make it movies on Youtube is child friendly–in fact, many have language I prefer not to share with my children.  We usually preview them on my computer where I make a queue of suitable movies for the kids to watch on the Wii.  The other trick we have found is to go to this site. The Erskines have done a wonderful job putting together a slew of educational Youtube videos.  My kids will sit and watch videos on their site for hours, learning all sorts of interesting thigns–and then, usually, they go out and try the experiments themselves and elaborate on them (like they did with Eepy Bird’s Mentos and coke experiments.)

*The Erskines also run Home School Radio Shows which has free downloadable mp3′s of old radio shows each week, plus lots of little interesting tidbits to go with it.  My oldest adores old radio shows and loves getting the latest from this site.

The above video is long but well worth the watch.  I recommend taking it in small chunks because it is full of very interesting information.  My husband described it as running through an art museum trying to see everything.

What does a video by an anthropologist about media literacy have to do with unschooling?

Mike Wesch is a college professor trying to adapt college education to our new media and talks about how the changes in media have changed the way students learn to a group of college professors (a lot of whom have little experience with modern media.)  The first half is very pertinent to where we are as unschooling parents.  The latter part is an interesting experiment but less relavent.

In this video he very clearly outlines the traditional expectations of  education and systematically proves that, in our modern age, each of these suppositions in false.